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The Code of Extraordinary Change helps you show self-doubt, second-guessing and people-pleasing who's boss.

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How to Beat the Fear of Criticism

A few years ago I was in a meeting room being told that the way I'd handled a project was embarrassing.I was dumb-founded. I thought I'd done my best under challenging circumstances, but here was … Read More.

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20 Questions That Can Change Your Life

I could ask you what your favourite cheese is or whether you prefer ballet or ham, but I don't think the answers would be very productive.Mildly interesting maybe, but hardly useful.For useful … Read More.

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The Fear of Unmet Desire

Desire.U2 sang about it. Oscar Wilde toyed with it. Chocolate inspires it. And we're all full of it My head wants to see my name on the spine of a book in a bookstore, because it would be bloody … Read More.

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Confidence: Love Not Strength

Digging deep into this whole confidence thing is sometimes like being mentored by Leonardo Da Vinci.Just when I think I've figured it out, he goes all crazy in the coconut, yells at me that I know … Read More.


Why You Should Forget About Being Happy All The Time

I wrote last week about happiness and control. How they get on about as well as an extra in Christian Bale's eyeline or a stripper at a Papal picnic.We concluded that happiness was a choice, not … Read More.

Bending Circumstances is a Shitty Strategy for Happiness

The Shittiest Strategy for Happiness

You set a goal. You get behind it like Kevin Spacey tackling a juicy role. And you try to make things happen.All good, except for the all the happiness you invest in reaching that goal.I'll be … Read More.

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