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The Code of Extraordinary Change helps you show self-doubt, second-guessing and people-pleasing who's boss.

It builds on what you already know, leverages your natural inner confidence (yeah, you have it) and takes you to a place where you're ready to get out there, be yourself and put your dent in the universe.

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In Your Room

The Fear of Unmet Desire

Desire.U2 sang about it. Oscar Wilde toyed with it. Chocolate inspires it. And we're all full of it My head wants to see my name on the spine of a book in a bookstore, because it would be bloody … Read More.

Love Note 2

Confidence: Love Not Strength

Digging deep into this whole confidence thing is sometimes like being mentored by Leonardo Da Vinci.Just when I think I've figured it out, he goes all crazy in the coconut, yells at me that I know … Read More.


Why You Should Forget About Being Happy All The Time

I wrote last week about happiness and control. How they get on about as well as an extra in Christian Bale's eyeline or a stripper at a Papal picnic.We concluded that happiness was a choice, not … Read More.

Bending Circumstances is a Shitty Strategy for Happiness

The Shittiest Strategy for Happiness

You set a goal. You get behind it like Kevin Spacey tackling a juicy role. And you try to make things happen.All good, except for the all the happiness you invest in reaching that goal.I'll be … Read More.


5.5 Lies You Need to Stop Telling Yourself

There are certain things I tell myself that I know to be true.Cats are bastards I should so write for the Onion Geez Emily Blunt's lovelyThose are all undeniable facts of course, but there … Read More.

Free as a bird

Doing What You Don’t Know

Doing what you don't know is like freefalling.At some point, if you want to go forwards, you have to just let go and drop into the space that's right there in front of your face.You don't know … Read More.

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