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How to Stay Confident When the Odds Are Shit-Your-Pants Scary

There are many things in life that are shit-your-pants scary, Quitting your job because you want to do something that actually amounts to something. Committing to a new relationship even though … Read More.

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What I Want

There's a lot that I want. A new TV. A beautiful 1940's chair. All the sex. Someone to fix my left shoulder. But none of that really matters a whole lot. None of that is who I am. And none of it … Read More.

Swear To God

The Undefeatable Underdog

I get goose-pimples when I see someone look up with wide eyes and try for something better. The hairs on the back of my neck stand up when I look at the odds, and see someone square up to them in … Read More.


50 Best Confidence Building Tips of All-Time

No lengthy pre-amble needed on this one. Just know that these are 50 of the best damn confidence building tips in existence. Plus they're in bite-sized morsels for easy digestion. So now you … Read More.

Get Kinky: 7 Ways To Confidently Embrace Your Kinks

Get Kinky: 7 Ways To Confidently Embrace Your Kinks

Fifty Shades may be (IMHO) trash worthy of the North Atlantic garbage patch, but you can't ignore its runaway success. Let's face it, people are interested, fascinated even, by the kinky or … Read More.

If you are never scared, embarrassed or hurt, it means you never take chances

What to Do If You’re Scared of Change

Every time I get a new freelancing contract in a new place, I get a little scared. What am I walking into? What if I hate it? What if it all goes tits up? Every time I go on a date, I get a little … Read More.

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